What A Night
We’ve probably all been there. Your on a roll, and your doing awesome! The girl you got attracted, is really cute and hot as hell! You just know, that this is the girl you want to pull back to your place.

And come to think of it, she looks like girlfriend material. But then it happens; she doesn’t really want to bounce with you or follow up with you the days after it….

Damn, another hottie passed throe your hands and you couldn’t keep hold of her. I mean sure she liked you in the moment but now, she’s just avoiding you. And to make things worse, so are her hot girlfriends right now.

Sorry to say man, but you've lost…

Good thing you have another quarter to put into the arcade machine, your going to win this round!

But How To Win?!
What if you have no idea on what your doing wrong?

Well I’m going to help you out on this one, time to get your weapons fixed!
Dr. Crunx: “This is a serious case of “Clientes Reformo” (Latin). Also know as Buyers Remorse.
According to Wikipedia is as followed: “The anxiety may be rooted in various factors, such as: the person's concern they purchased the wrong product, purchased for a bad price, purchased instead of waiting for a newer model, purchased in an ethically unsound way, purchased on credit, or purchased something that would not be acceptable to others.
In the phase before purchasing, a prospective buyer often feels positive emotions associated with a purchase (desire, a sense of heightened possibilities, and an anticipation of the enjoyment that will accompany using the product, for example); afterwards, having made the purchase, they are more fully able to experience the negative aspects: all the opportunity costs of the purchase, and a reduction in purchasing power.”

Now this phenomenon, is pretty much conquered in sales the same way, it is in pickup. In sales, it pretty much means you fired enough bullets on your target but they didn’t really hit. Therefor we simply ask the customer; what they are all about, what are they really looking for and how they would see their business/ life boosted with the service. This makes them feel understood and they will basically tell you all you need to know. Which leads to a great relationship on a deeper level!

So how does this effect your game?
Well, a girl (your customer) must always have the feeling that you actually know her. Why else would she feel appreciated?! And I don’t mean just knowing she likes to party or loves a “Pornstar Martini” to kick off a party.

Since you already attracted the girl, and collected your IOI's (A2 - Female to male interest)
Your ready to move on and start showing your interest in her (A3 - Male to female interest)

Time for qualification!
There is a big misunderstanding within the pickup community on "A3". While some people see it as giving her serious compliments for the craziest things, an asking point of all kinds questions, while others see them as a time frame where they can show her, they're sorry for negging her.

Well it's actually a time where the male looks closer at his target. To see if the girl that showed her interest in him, is qualified enough to be with.

Just like when your buying a new car or a house, you want to make sure your doing the right buy!
It would be stupid spending a your hard earned cash (value) on something that looks good but is the worst thing you've ever had!

To tackle this your going to do some research. With a product it's common that people will look it up on the Internet or ask the sales person for some information about it, before purchasing it. Well with again with Pickup, it's again pretty much the same. But now you can ask the "product" it self.


So what's so important about qualifiers? It's just a bit of information..

* Qualifiers can be used as a connection DHV spike, because it conveys a growing appreciation for the target and thus it flips her appreciation convention switch.
* It's shows your a guy with options and value, which makes her want to chase you more!
* Great push-pull opportunity
* Your target experiences as if she is winning you over


But just asking questions like: “So where are you from?” "What do you do?" "What kind of sports do you like?" can wreck your game in just seconds! Because they heard that line thousands of times, asked by losers before. And because of that, she sees such questions as IOL's; Indicator Of Loser! Therefor such interview questions should be avoided.

So how do you avoid that?
Whenever you feel the urge to ask those interview questions, just form them into a statement.
AND DON'T BE OVER SERIOUS! THIS IS NOT A JOB INTERVIEW, IT'S A SOCIAL GATHERING!

So DON'T DO THIS:
You: "So where are you from?"
Her: "London"

You "Oh, cool.. What kind of music do you like?"
Her: "About everything, bit pop"

You: "What kind of work do you do?"
Her: "I work at a store"
(You can actually feel her interest of her in you, flowing away the more you do this)

DO THIS:
You: "You know, you look like a Vegas girl!"
Her: I'm actually from London, why would I be a Vegas girl?

You: "You know, you just look like the girl that likes those Wild TIËSTO parties!
Her: "Yeah I do like those. How did you know?

You: "So do they let psychiatrist like you in?
Her: "I'm not a psychiatrist, I'm work at book store!"

The phrases are not important, now what is important is that you use your interview as an opportunity to add value in a more spontaneous way using the absurd.

So what if my statement is wrong?
You don't care, it's not about the statement! If you stated that she was from Vegas and she asks why, just respond with what made you think she would be. Maybe her shoe's, her attitude, her earrings or anything else. And don't forget those IOD's! You don't want to be an easy catch.

You: Your like a pineapple!...
Her: "A what?!"
You: "Rough and spiky on the outside (IOD), but once your passed all that shit... your pretty sweet.... Interesting (IOI)"


Or power it up with the input of a DHV-story.

"Well, while I was traveling with my girlfriend (DHV).... one of our favorite spots.... was Vegas! There is joy, just everywhere!... And earrings like those.... Now over there.. it looks a bit stupid because EVERY girl wears them (IOD), but over here they they're pretty special (IOI)....."


Now it’s just your job on making her tell more about herself. And don’t worry, girls like to talk about themselves. Just like everyone else! But make sure you don’t just ask one question and skip to the next subject or keep it to one subject ALL the time. You have to build width (multiple subjects) to get a overall view on her. But you also have to have depth (questions asked on a single subject).


Get to know her on a couple of spots really good.
Whatever your looking for in a girl, you should ask her.

What is she like outside of the club?
What are her future plans?
What her favorite place in the whole world?
Is she adventurous?


Example:

You: “I’m wondering…”
She: “About what?”
You: “Is there really more then just your life in this venue?”
She: “What do you mean?”
You: “What are you passionate about?”
She: “Well, I’m…(she goes talking about her job, her friends, anything basically)
You: “So what makes you so passionate about that?”
She: “Oh it’s really great, and I just love…. (She goes into more depth)”


Don’t worry about saying you totally agree or totally disagree. She doesn’t want anyone who is “Okay” or "Against" EVERYTHING she does. Just make sure you find some commonalities.

Spend some time in getting to know her, and she’ll feel like she really earned your attention. And now she doesn’t have to feel like a slut after getting more intimate with you. This will not only help you with conquering the Last Minute Resistance but also Clientes Reformo. Once you get good at this, you’ll always have girls in your social life.

Well guys I had my typing exercise for today, time to get to know some girls!

*NOTE: Crunx is not a doctor *